sWeet daRk tHotS...

What do ya know? Could almost smell the weekend NOW! Although there's still Fri to go through and that sadly I have no events this week. But it's gonna be the final weekend before Raya and thankfully, my baking is done and over with. Mom even wrapped up the oven to ban me from baking. And sometimes if not all the time I feel that Mom is a SuperWoman. She cld do the laundry, go to the mkt, prepare Mee Bandung and Talam Berlauk for break-fast and even make her all-time fave giveaway for Hari Raya, Rempenyek. And the quantity is horrific.
She managed to complete those to be given to 3 Obeks and half for our own which I bet she will ambitiously continue to make ours full tupperware by tomorrow.
GoSH! I wish I'm 20% smangat like her.

All three nicely stacked up on the dining table.
Purposely awaiting my praises to her!
Oh shoot! Supposed to tape those rims for her.. Hee.

A student dropped by the office to assist me in expanding the waistline.
A huge pack of Dark Hershey kisses. :D
Making my job all worthwhile and much appreciated.
Well, thank You.

Shortie returned Mom's recipe book with a choc bar from Ikea.
That's something NEW! For once I thot it was a bar to be melted for cookie-baking.
GEEZ!

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And when almost evening came, Shortie asked me to read a note.
It was damn long and I have short-span attention.
So I got it printed and read it on the ride home.

How to know When a Man Loves You. (At your own discretion pls)
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Because of the nature of human, and the way in which we are created, it is often difficult for us to know exactly when our partners truly love us or not however, certain modalities stand as a good test of how much love our partners have for us at a given time and circumstance. I know quiet sure that sometimes in our lives, we are stocked in the middle of a relationship, not knowing what to do, whether to move front or to go back, our mind is just confused on what to do. It may be as a result of insecurity of the mind, not knowing exactly if our partner loves us or not.

One obvious sign is that, if a guy loves you, his dressing style must change to your favorites. Now examine this little change, before you met him, how does he normally dress? Is he a guy that cares less about the way he dresses? Is he a type that just put on whatever he sees, in the name of wearing a cloth? If yes, then how much has this dressing habit changed since your relationship with him? Is his dressing style now okay and impressive, both to you and your friends who used to complain of his dressing mode in the past?
(this is scary cos mR gEE got this sudden urge to change his dressing and wanting to grab a new Tee every mth or so)

Secondly, how often does he like or enjoy glancing at you, when may be you are not looking at him or not aware? If a guy likes you, he will always like to steal some look at you, when you are not aware, which you may often catch him doing, and if may be, you caught his eyes, does he normally shift his to avoid you knowing that he was looking at you? This is another good sign of knowing that a guy loves you, or is admiring you.
(well he used to do it but now we're more focused in observing others. haha)

Thirdly, how often is he ready to help you out, whenever you get entrapped in a particular sort of trouble, does he sit back and just watch you suffer in pains or does he offer his hand for help; a good sign of love.
(well the time the pipe got burst, he CALLed me up instead of just bb-ing me while I almost drown in my own tank) *exaggeration Alert

Another way to know if a guy loves you, is to watch how he enjoys communicating with you. Guys love chatting with people they love, especially the opposite sex, as a fact, a guy that loves you, will always love to discuss one thing or the other with you. He will like to share with you, stories and events that took place while you weren’t around.
(yah all those boring stories about his work and school..hAhA)

Remember, if a guy loves you, he likes or loves to chat with you just the same way he chats with his best male friends, he uses slang, jargons and all the usual words he uses when chatting with his best friends, except, the rude ones.
(Sadly, sometimes he forgotten that I'm actually a GIRL)

Again, how does he feel for your moods? Is he happy when you are happy? Or does he try to flame up your anger whenever he notices that you are angry? If he does, that is a bad sign, may be he does not love you, it may be a like. Don’t forget a guy that loves you, would do anything within his reach to make you happy.
(Amazingly he knows when I'm PISSED even via bb..
Or probably I'm just that obvious)

And the final piece of advice:

In conclusion, a guy that loves you, will always talk and boost about you, even when he is with his friends, he is trying to raise issues concerning ladies, just to throw in something about you. Therefore, do your best and get more acquainted with his best friends, to enable you learn more about him and how much he loves you, his friends are your best tool, get close to them.
(HX, HERE I COME! HAHA)

But of course none of the above matters much.
If you are a girl, use your instincts and gut feelings.
Cos most of the time it won't Fail you.
And LOVE takes alot of effort, courage and Fate.